Well, yeah, i have had this difficulty. Though i don't know how much of it has to do with being a Horse. If it's some astrology thing then it might first be my Virgoan critical eye that intrudes right off, so that very few girls pass the initial test. But then, secondarily, when i do find someone i like it could be a Horse's abnormal sized ego that causes me not to risk connecting with that person - for fear of rejection - but i'm not sure.

Well I just got married this past June for the first time. I had an AWFUL time the first 1/2 of my life! I only had like 3 ltr's before now and they were awful not lasting more 2.5 yrs. I began seeing my husband, my soul mate back in 1993. I dreamed him and had visions of him. Then about year ago, when I began to think he wasn't real BAM! I found him on an Asatru message board! We got married 6 mos later and have a wonderful home and wonderful marriage! Here's the kicker, he is 13 yrs younger than me! That explains why I didn't find him til now! He was 13 in real life when I first dreamed him!